Writing an obituary is a heartfelt way to honor a loved one’s life, share their story, and inform others of their passing. It serves as a public announcement of death and a way to invite others to funeral or memorial services. It is often the first step in the grieving process, helping families find closure.
Steps to Write a Meaningful Obituary
Gather Essential Information
Start by collecting key details such as full name and age, date and place of death, birth date and place, survivors and details of the funeral service – including date, time and location.
You can work with Omega Funeral Home to ensure accuracy, especially for legal details like death certificates.
Highlight Their Life and Legacy
Share what made your loved one unique. Mention their career, hobbies, passions, or community involvement. Include anecdotes, like a favorite memory or achievement, to personalize the tribute. If they chose cremation, note how their ashes will be honored.
Keep It Concise and Respectful
Aim for 200 to 500 words. Use a warm, respectful tone, avoiding overly private or sensitive information unless the family agrees. For religious families, incorporate faith-based elements, like “Biodun found peace in his Catholic faith.”
Include Service Information and Donations
Specify details of the funeral, memorial, or cremation service. If preferred, suggest donations to a charity in lieu of flowers,
Proofread and Publish
Review for accuracy and tone. Publish through local newspapers, online memorial sites, or social media.
Sample Obituary
Mary Jenase James (1960–2025)
Mary Jenase James, 65, of Lagos, passed away peacefully on October 1, 2025, surrounded by family. Born in Duke Town, Calabar, Mary was a dedicated nurse whose kindness touched countless lives. She loved hosting family picnics and volunteering at Cornerstone Church Charity. Mary is survived by her husband, James; children, Sandy and Michael; and sister, Dunni. She was predeceased by her parents, Litia and Andeshi. A memorial service will be held at Omega Funeral Home Conference Center on October 10, 2025, at 2 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations to Cornerstone Church Charity are appreciated. Mary’s light will shine forever in our hearts.
Writing an obituary is a loving act of remembrance. Contact Omega Funeral Home today for help crafting a heartfelt obituary or planning funeral services.
