Dividing cremation ashes among family members is a deeply personal way to honor a deceased loved one, allowing each person to keep a close connection.
At Omega Funeral Home, we understand the emotional weight of this decision. This sensitive guide provides practical steps, legal insights, and creative ideas to ensure the process respects everyone’s wishes.
Ethical Considerations for Dividing Ashes
It is essential to verify that all involved are in agreement about dividing the ashes. Disagreements can lead to fractured relationships, so open communication is critical.
Some cultural or religious traditions, such as certain branches of Christianity or Hinduism, may view dividing ashes as inappropriate or disrespectful, preferring a single resting place.
Step-by-Step Guide to Dividing Cremation Ashes
- Discuss with Family Members
Start with an open conversation. Gather everyone involved to share preferences; some may want a portion for scattering, while others prefer keepsakes. This ensures the division feels fair and honors the deceased’s wishes.
- Choose Division Methods and Portions
Decide how to allocate ashes based on family size and desires. Common approaches include:
- Equal Portions
Divide evenly using measuring tools for accuracy.
- Proportional Shares
Larger amounts for immediate family, smaller for extended relatives.
- Symbolic Amounts
Small portions for jewelry or vials, leaving the bulk for a central urn.
Work with a professional to ensure safe handling. Ashes are fine powder, so use gloves and a clean workspace.
Select Appropriate Containers
Invest in quality vessels to store divided ashes. Some of these are provided below.
- Mini Urns
Child-sized or keepsake urns hold small amounts.
- Memorial Jewelry
Lockets or pendants infused with ashes for wearable tributes.
- Scattering Tubes
Biodegradable options for eco-friendly dispersal.
- Glass Ornaments
Custom-blown pieces incorporating ashes for display.
Dividing cremation ashes among family members is a beautiful act of shared remembrance.
Contact Omega Funeral Home today for expert advice on cremation ashes division or to explore urn options. We’re here to support your family’s journey.
