Across cultures and generations, superstitions have shaped how we say goodbye. Some of these beliefs might seem outdated, but they’ve endured because they offer a sense of control in the face of life’s greatest uncertainty. Sometimes these superstitions may weave into the fabric of funeral or memorial services. They often arise from a need to honor the departed, protect the living, or make sense of the unknown.
Common Funeral Superstitions and Their Origins
Here are some intriguing funeral superstitions from around the world, along with the stories behind them:
Covering Mirrors
In many cultures, mirrors in the home are covered or turned to the wall after a death. The belief is that mirrors can trap the soul of the deceased, preventing them from moving on.
Others think an uncovered mirror might allow spirits to enter the home. This tradition is especially common in Jewish and Victorian-era practices.
Stopping Clocks
Clocks in the home are stopped at the time of death. This is a way to mark the moment a loved one passed, signaling that time, in a sense, stood still for them.
It is also believed to prevent bad luck by not “rushing” the spirit’s departure.
Opening a Window
In some European and Native American cultures, a window is opened after someone dies to let their soul leave the body. This belief holds that the soul needs an exit to begin its journey to the afterlife. Closing the window too soon might trap the spirit.
Carrying a Coin for the Ferryman
This involves placing coins on the eyes or in the mouth of the deceased. Rooted in ancient Greek mythology, this practice ensured the deceased could pay the ferryman, to cross the River Styx into the afterlife. Variations exist in other cultures, like placing money in a casket for the journey.
Not Speaking Ill of the Dead
To avoid speaking negatively about the deceased to prevent their spirit from lingering or seeking revenge, is found in many cultures.
It reflects respect for them and a fear of disturbing their peace.
