Wondering how to wish someone a Merry Christmas when they’re grieving? Or what thoughtful gift could show you care? Even if the loss happened years ago, it’s still crucial to know how to offer support during the holiday season.
We’re here to guide you with ideas to help you support your loved one during this difficult holiday season.
Be Understanding
Invite your loved one to be open about their feelings and talk about their grief. By being attentive and understanding, the grieving person can feel reassured that they have someone to turn to if they need a listening ear.
Christmas Gift Ideas
When it comes to Christmas gifts, it helps to be guided by their wishes. You may donate to a charity that means something to them.
You may spend time together indoors or suggest going for a memorial walk together, where you can chat openly about your memories and what the person meant to them.
Invite them Over but Respect Their Choice
Christmas can magnify the loneliness of those suffering a loss.
While your grieving loved one may not seem up for the festivities, extending an invitation helps them know they are welcome and that you care. They’re bound to appreciate the thoughtful gesture, nonetheless.
However, if they choose to decline, respect their decision and try again next time.
Offer Practical Support
Help them with housework, offer to drive them to the shops, cook their favourite meal, or show up to their door with something homemade. If you’re not sure what to do, reach out and ask them how you can be of help.
Keep Checking In Beyond Christmas
Grief endures beyond the holiday season. Your loved one may still have to deal with hurting emotions as time goes on.
Remember to keep checking in on them beyond Christmas.
