Sending Condolences
Perhaps you have found yourself at a great loss for words when someone you care about has experienced a great loss. In spite of your own feelings, you should not put off contacting that person to express your condolences. Hearing from you is crucial because it lets them know that they are not alone in their grief.
How to Send a Condolence Message
A call, hand-written note or card are still the most traditional ways to offer a formal message of condolence. Depending on how close you are to the bereaved person, social media or a personal visit are other lovely options. Electronic messaging may not be a good option if the bereaved does not use or know how to use such technology.
Many funeral homes allow you to post condolences on their website. You may consider more public forms, such as newspapers or magazines, but be careful not to send a public condolence message if the bereaved has not yet made such announcements.
When to Send a Condolence Message
Timing is of the essence when it comes to condolences. Depending on your level of closeness with the bereaved, you should send your condolences immediately after you learn about the death. Sending it at a later date will require your apologizing for the delay. If you are only a casual friend, then sending it after a few days will not be frowned upon.
Thoughtful Condolence Messages
When expressing your sympathy, never make it about you and your past experiences with grief. Here are some meaningful messages you can send:
- My heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts, and I’m sending you all my love.
- I am profoundly sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this incredibly difficult time.
- Remembering the wonderful moments we shared with [Name] brings a smile even amidst the sorrow. They will always hold a special place in our hearts.